Thursday, January 16, 2020

Introducing STATE OF THE #SHEA... (A Blog about ABC-TV's "The Good Doctor")

*** NOTE: Scroll on down for FIGURE SKATING blog posts; there's plenty of them.******



If you’re anything like me, six weeks was a long, LONG time to go without a follow-up episode of The Good Doctor.

Arguably, that was the case for any fan of the show. How could it not be, given the emotional wallop of “Friends and Family”? But if you’re anything like me, you’re also what (I think) the cool kids call Team #Shea… and you’ve watched that final minute of the episode at least 3 dozen times now on YouTube… and all those synapses in your brain that laid relatively dormant during the first half of season 3? Yeah, those have been firing away with all the possibilities that seemed to shake themselves anew the moment Lea got her arms around a flailing, distraught Shaun—and without hesitation, he let her.

When Shaun got his flowers and his chocolates (“real ones”) and his best suit and stood there in front of Lea in the final minutes of season 2… only to walk right on by her and out the door/down the street/through the woods or whatever it took to get himself to Carly’s doorstep… I was happier about it than I thought I’d be. Yes, I’ve been Team #Shea from the moment a certain young surgeon with ASD went to collect the batteries he’d loaned to a certain young mechanical engineer down the hall in season 1. And when the first half of season 2 re-launched their relationship with, ultimately, new living quarters and a new set of rules, I remained cautiously optimistic that somehow the decidedly platonic twosome would find themselves on the same romantic page in due time.

But the final minutes of season 2 was not yet that time. We’d had numerous bonding moments by then, but we also had (sigh) “Jake”. Not that “Jake” was anything more than a Generic Boyfriend for Lea, but he was enough to reiterate It ain’t happening for Shaun yet, folks. Shaun knew it, and he mourned it, and stayed as pre-occupied as he could with Dr. Glassman’s illness until Dr. Han’s arrival forced Shaun to put all his energy towards keeping the career that never should have been in jeopardy in the first place. By the time Shaun had fought through all that (and a hospital stay of his own!), who knows if Jake was even around anymore. But he’d served his purpose, for Shaun was moving on.

Or, he thought he’s moved on.

Has he moved on?

I’ve never been fully convinced. And when he picked Lea over Carly to join him in Wyoming, my thought was Oh yessssss. I see what they’re doing here. And while the “Friends and Family” episode covered an achingly sad (and also infuriating) event, I couldn’t help but feel it lifted the hopes of #Shea ‘shippers the way an unexpected romantic interlude would for, say, a completely neurotypical, would-be, long-awaited twosome. You know why, right? It’s because even though nothing remotely sexual transpired between Lea and Shaun on that troubling night… the embrace, the way he reached back and pulled her even closer, the way she pressed her cheek against his, the locking of hands, it whispered/screamed THIS is still your woman, Shaun.

So while they did not sleep together in the way Glassman first thought when Shaun told him… in the context of his intimacy issues with Carly, they might as well have.

I know this is where a lot of fans break ranks with those on Team #Shea. To a fair degree, I understand why… they think she’s “a flake” (thanks, MORGAN) who has never taken Shaun seriously as a love interest beyond their road-tripping days of season 1. They think she sees him as more of a brother, or that she’s more representative of Shaun’s late brother Steve at this point in the relationship. They don’t see chemistry, they see a good-time girl who would only break Shaun’s heart if they were together like that.

I see it very differently, and thanks to a lot of online lurking (and a little bit of posting) during that long 6 weeks away from the show, I believe that not only am I—are WE—far from alone. In fact, #Shea ‘shippers are in the majority: every Lea or Carly? Poll I’ve seen has Lea winning handily—60% in some cases, but more often something like 70/30 over Carly. (This Good Housekeeping article from Tuesday had a 75/25 split in Lea’s favor last time I checked it.)


Which may lead you to ask… or even wail (at least in your mind)… how could TGD Writers have Shaun agree to move out of a living arrangement they spent a LOT of time developing for him, with a woman the fans seem to prefer for him? And what about that “I love you Carly”…??? Are they crazy?

I’m no expert—a professional writer, yes, but certainly not one connected to the show in any way, shape or form—but I feel fairly safe in saying they (TGDW) know exactly what they’re doing. And that we need to trust that it is, by and large, in line with what we think they should be doing.

There is so much more I’d like to get into, especially if it’ll be interesting and/or helpful to other #Shea ‘shippers as we navigate the proverbial Sea of Love during the remainder of TGD season 3. (Which has recently expanded to 20 episodes rather than the usual 18, according to The Good Doctor Scouts Twitter account.) But… especially to the many TGD fans I’ve recently met on Twitter who aren’t quite as happy right now with the show as they thought they would be after that break… let me put a few more thoughts out there for you to chew on while we wait for “Mutations” (the next episode):

A)    Shaun seemed torn between the two women in his life when “Fractured” started. Glassman suggested he “figure it out, and fast”; in Shaun’s mind, he has now done just that.

B)     To prove it, Shaun made a series of very bold actions and statements (for him, at least) in the final moments of the episode. Which is one of the things I’d love to talk about in another post, BTW.

C)    There are still as many as nine episodes of storytelling left to go on this arc. In other words, it ain’t over. And I have a hard time believing TGDW have invested the better part of three years cultivating Shaun and Lea’s relationship just to have Lea fade quietly into San Jose shadows the minute Shaun professes his love for another woman.

So keep breathing, team #Shea. As Steve might ask… “How many candles do you need”?


ONE MORE IMPORTANT THING: I’m not a Carly-hater by any stretch of the imagination…in fact, I think she’s absolutely essential to Shaun’s evolution. So if you’re here primarily to bash the character or the actress that portrays her (Jasika Nicole), you’ve come to the wrong place.

If, on the other hand, you’d like to talk about your own thoughts and/or feelings for #Shea, for The Good Doctor in general, or ask any questions, please do so in the comments! This is a very experimental post for me and I’d really like to hear from you.

2 comments:

Amy D said...

I'm a wordy person, so I'll have to break this up into parts because of the character limit:

I've shipped #Shea from their first meeting. And I absolutely agree, Shaun, who is generally averse to touch in general, not only LETTING Lea hug him but hugging her back and sleeping in her arms all night was a MAJOR step for him. And I've never seen Lea as a flake (Shaun doesn't either, as he corrected Morgan that Lea is NOT a flake, which he said twice to emphasize the point). She's a lot more laid-back than Shaun and that is one reason she complements him so well. No one else in his life would get him to sing karaoke or drive go-karts. And no one else in his life has taken the time to bond with Dr. Glassman, let alone give Glassman a sassy nickname and be involved in Glassman's cancer treatment (while Shaun was stuck in the quarantine, Lea drove Glassy to chemo and stayed with him while he waited on his test results). Granted, some of that is due to professional boundaries, but I still feel it's a valid point.

I've never seen Lea as a sister figure, or even just a platonic friend. She has kissed Shaun more than once. They co-parent a fish. And even when she's initially taken aback, as when Shaun told her that he rented the apartment she loved for both of them to live in, she comes around in time and they find a way to make it work through compromise, as with the two toilet paper rolls. Shaun had their original fish autopsied by the hospital so Lea would know she didn't kill it. He rented the apartment he knew she loved. Despite his aversion to mud and night swimming, he was getting ready to dive into that freezing lake to go after Lea when she didn't come up immediately because he thought she would need help. He was hurt to the point of tears when she left and when she came back expecting things to be the same, and he let her know that. They were both right in different ways, but they got through that rocky patch. And she was proud of and happy for him when he got his first solo surgery, and maybe I'm projecting, but when she and Glassman were at the hospital waiting for Shaun to wake up in the season 2 finale, and Glassman told her that he was glad that someone who really cared about Shaun was going to break his heart. Glassman assumed Lea doesn't feel THAT WAY about Shaun because Shaun told Glassman when they were stoned together that Lea likes Jake, and that bothers Shaun because he has feelings for Lea. When she went back to Hershey, he was prepared to follow her. Shaun thought he had to move on because he thought Lea was unavailable. But notice, Lea had no reply when Glassman said that to her, about her breaking Shaun's heart, and when she saw Shaun all dressed up with the chocolates and flowers, he asked her how he looked, and she smiled and told him how handsome he looked. I was hoping he was going big to ask her out in that moment. But no, he went to Carly's.

Amy D said...

Continued from above:

Shaun has a lot to learn about love. And he has an excellent support system. Even the people with broken marriages and failed relationships have advice of value to give him, I truly believe that, and all of his co-residents and attendings care about Shaun not just as a doctor but as a person, albeit to varying degrees. But I can't deny, as a Shea shipper, I feel like Shaun is loving the one he's with (Carly) because for now, he can't be with the one he loves (Lea). He's had feelings for Lea since before he even met Carly or asked her out. He just doesn't think she's available romantically. And although we haven't gotten much in the way of insight into Lea's feelings for Shaun and what those are beyond "He's my best friend," what is real love but friendship that has caught fire? What we do know from Lea is that Shaun is the most honest guy she knows; she doesn't want him to start lying to her to make her feel better; when he calls her on things like playing her music too loud, she might initially be angry, but when she calms down, she is able to admit that he was right and apologize. And while Shaun's meltdown over his father's final abusive shot at him was MAJOR, with him initiating the lying down part and then holding onto Lea for dear life as she held onto him and falling asleep with her that way, this was not the first time Shaun took comfort from Lea. In fact, the first time he actively SOUGHT comfort from her--when, the day of the shooting in which he was in the convenience store, after she replaced the green apple she had taken from him that sent him to the store in the first place that morning, he knocked on her door and told her that he had made a mistake that day and as a result, someone had gotten hurt, and when Lea asked if she could hug Shaun, he said yes. He didn't hug her back, but he stood there and let her put her arms around him and rest her head on his chest. He may not have recognized it at that point as seeking comfort from her, but I did.

I've been shipping TV couples since 1985. In the last 35 years, I've had my heart broken more often than not, but the most valuable lesson I've come away with is that when it comes to getting a couple together, especially if you, as a fan, want that couple to be endgame, which I do with Shea, it's a marathon, not a sprint, and this is only season 3. I don't expect Shea to get together this season. I don't expect Shaun to go straight from Carly to Lea. But I have learned the hard way that patience and hope are vital tools for every shipper, so I will keep the faith and keep shipping Shea. Freddie Highmore and Paige Spara have wonderful chemistry together, and as a fan of The Good Doctor, one of the happiest days of my life was the day I learned that Paige was returning as Lea, but this time as a regular. I even commented about that on Twitter when it happened and got a reply to my tweet from Paige herself. How cool is that?

For now, I have patience and hope, and I'm keeping the faith for Shea. And for now, that's enough. And you're right: it's very nice to know I'm not the only one shipping Shea, because for quite some time, I thought I was the only one who did. Shea shippers unite!